Am I lazy for thinking that marriage is a waste of time & money & has nothing much to offer a woman?

Sandi Asked: Am I lazy for thinking that marriage is a waste of time & money & has nothing much to offer a woman?

I think it's so boring, being with a guy the rest of your life, dealing with his ego, his quirks, his need to want to control things, and it's not fun cooking, cleaning, etc for him and some little kids. It interferes with my career, job, money and my cats, all of which I love dearly. I am not desperate for sex, nor am I in need of 'love.' Love is something fleeting and can not always last. Most marriages in the world fail, regardless whether or not they end in divorce. Love is NOT motivating enough of a factor to marry. My cats give me enough love that I don't need a man even. Am I lazy for feeling this, since I'm not into this type of lifestyle, which most ppl are into?